A Superior Way to Demonstrate Value
Don't shout about your value
As you get better at dating and social interactions, you continually ask yourself the question, “How can I achieve more with less?”
I have some wonderful things in my life right now because of the hard work I have put in for the last few years, but I am always pushing to achieve more. I want platforms and methods that bring me the success I have now with minimal effort so I can concentrate my larger efforts on growth goals.
10 Things to Improve your Game by 150%
Independent travelling will rock your world
Hi Guys,
I just came back from the Real Man Conference in Amsterdam, where I gave a kicka*s speech on utilising your emotions when dealing with your inner game and dating women. When you’ve been doing this stuff for years, you have a tendency to look at things from a bigger perspective and wax philosophical about underlying principles in social interactions, your own internal processes and those of women.
With that in mind, today I’d like to do the opposite and offer my top ten practical tips for guys who are fairly new to dating science or those who are reaching serious plateaus in their game. Implement these and I personally guarantee you that you will see improvements in your overall life as well as in your success with women.
1. Stop reading all dating forums for two weeks. Bar yourself from reading, writing, or replying to any posts on any internet dating science forum. You will discover that time spent working on yourself is more valuable that arguing, debating or defending any aspect of dating science.
2. Get a brand new haircut or hairstyle. Chop it, style it, dye it. Do something to it to make it look different to how it is now. I recommend going to a good stylist (ask friends with good hair for recommendations). Your friends will have mixed reactions to it (most people don’t like change), but women will react positively to it.
Day Walking: The Differences between Day and Night Game
Why I love Day Game
Some of the below is a bit detailed and may be a lot to take in for guys new to Day Game. Don ‘t worry if it is, just read the newbie note at the bottom, get out there and do a few sets, then come back and read the full article.
Some background on me. I’ve been working on my game for a few years now (started with David DeAngelo in 2003, but got into Game proper in 2005). I concentrated very much on indirect club game when I started, but as I grew and developed I discovered a love for Direct Game and Day Game.
Where I stand now is that I like doing night game as well, but Day Game will always be my first love. I have met three of the most incredible girlfriends that I have loved most in my life through Day Game, have had countless dates as a result of daytime number closes, and have pulled girls and groups of girls back to my place the same day I’ve met them.
Same Day Lay: The 18 Year Old Virgin
Unhooking before hooking up
I’m not really one for writing detailed LRs, but I wanted to break this one down just to demonstrate what is possible in Day Game. It’s also a good reminder of how far I’ve come. To think that a few years ago I couldn’t even imagine talking to a beautiful young woman in the cold light of day, let alone sleeping with one on the same day I met her, is incredible.
There are two themes to this story that are important for developing your skills with women (and indeed, improving any area of your life): Experimentation and Persistence.
Whenever you get good at something, you will find you periodically reach a plateau in your skill level. At this stage, you need to experiment and start trying different methods and techniques. In this case, I wanted to experiment with daytime physical escalation. I normally advocate that my students avoid serious kino (physical touching) in Day Game until they are on a date with the girl. But I was curious to see whether I could kiss girls quickly in the daytime and still seduce them.
Where I am
Welcome to my blog. I am not a narcissist, and you will find no long, self-adulating commentary here. I intend this to be an open journal of passion, adventure, honesty, fun, frolics and intellectual discourse.
I look forward to a few years from now when I can read this and see how far I’ve come. Life is about progressing. If I am still the same man I am today a year from now, then I have not worked hard enough.
Soul