Comments on: Dealing with Jealousy, Envy and other Bad Emotions

By: J

Sat, 14 Aug 2010 08:08:23 +0000

Part 2 coming up soon on Anger and low-self esteem?
This particular post made me took a deep look at myself and I thank you for that.
Thanks

By: M

Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:34:24 +0000

Thank you,

I think its a great article. My jealousy became so overwhelming that I sought out therapy to work on it. I appreciate how candid and many ways practical your article is.In many ways the root cause of my jealousy stems from being bullied and treated badly. Despite the care and love I experienced in relationships I never felt good enough. The change really has to be with me and its hard to admit it and always easier to become jealous.

Thank you for a great Article.

By: Anger Management Workshop

Anger Management Workshop — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 23:45:42 +0000

Interesting points! I was actually thinking about this topic last night and this morning (particularly how to incorporate it into my own blog. Thanks for the tips, bro!

By: Soul

Soul — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 13:11:46 +0000

Affirmations etc. can help, but in my experience physical actions get better results that trying to “shift your mind”.

Example: Think to yourself, “What would a jealous man say and do with his girlfriend?” He would probably say “hey where are you going tonight, who are you going with and what time will you be home?”

Solution to unlearn jealousy: Stop yourself from asking that question.

That’s just one example but hope it clarifies.

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 07:37:50 +0000

This is a great article. I’m actually going through a few of those emotions and was trying to work on it through things like affirmations and just reassuring myself. also by telling my girlfriend (monogamous relationship) the absolute truth of how I feel. I also know that my jealousy sometimes stems from just not being experienced in relationships. I was wondering though, if you could give an example of how to work on jealousy, through your formula? Maybe it’s late, but I kind of understand it and I kind of don’t.

Either way, appreciate the article. I’ll definitely be saving this one. Thanks!

By: moesanchez

moesanchez — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 03:37:39 +0000

thank you so very much. i have bookmarked this entry and whenever need be i will be referring to it. Your advice applies to so many different negative emotions which is fantastic. You really have inspired me to push myself to become a better man, so again thank you!
~moesanchez