Life With Soul

Remind yourself everytime you see a beautiful woman

I heard this thing on the radio the other day: “If you died today, would you have any regrets?”

Hand on heart, I knew that my answer was no.

That’s not to say that I haven’t made mistakes in my life but I know that everything I have done to date, the risks that I have taken, have brought me to where I am in life today. And if where I am in life is where I want to be, then how can I have any regrets?

So ask yourself – are you where you want to be in life right now? If the answer is no then you need to start taking charge of your life, working out your priorities and doing all the little things that will collectively help you get to where you want to go.

Something I take inspiration from was a speech a few years ago from Steve Jobs, founder and CEO of Apple. He said:

“You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”

In other words, you need to trust and believe in all the little decisions and actions that you take along your journey. The ride will not be smooth, there will be ups and downs. But know that everything happens for a reason and although that reason may be hard to see at the time, sometimes you just need to sit back and have faith that things will work out in the end.

So, if your goal is to have the ability to pull beautiful women on a regular basis or even if it is just to get a high quality girlfriend or lose your virginity, start taking right action now and take the necessary risks with your daily life.

Ask yourself: how many beautiful women did you walk past today? Maybe you noticed a Scandinavian looking blonde sitting on her own in the coffee shop as you rushed out with your daily espresso? Or maybe there was a hot brunette sat opposite you on the train on the way home from work?

Part of you wanted to say something to her. But then another part of you started thinking:

• She is going to think I’m weird
• She is going to tell me to get lost
• She is out of my league
• Everyone is going to look at me
• I am going to feel silly

Honestly, it’s true that these thoughts and emotions can cause discomfort for a few minutes, but you will prefer them to the much longer-lasting feeling of regret you will experience for the next few hours, days or weeks if you don’t approach her. She could be the greatest love of your life, but you won’t know until you open your mouth and talk to her.

Taking risks is not about always achieving what you want. There will be failures and things that don’t work out; you need to accept that. Taking risks is about being willing to act when you say, “I want that.” The outcome is not as important as taking this action.

Do it now, go out today and take a risk in your love life. Approach that Scandinavian looking blonde in the coffee shop, talk to that hot brunette sitting opposite you on the train. Have no regrets. It will change your life.

Soul