http://lifewithsoul.com/2009/02/stop-chasing-bad-leads-delete-those-flakes/ Dating & Relationships Advice for Men Tue, 27 Jul 2010 04:38:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://lifewithsoul.com/2009/02/stop-chasing-bad-leads-delete-those-flakes/comment-page-1/#comment-4177 Joseph Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:50:49 +0000 http://lifewithsoul.com/?p=212#comment-4177 I had a real issue with a flaky girl. I really liked this girl for a long time but she was really flaky. We eventually planned to take a roap trip together and as I tried to get to know her more by hanging out with her, she just kept flaking me out. Finally after the third, no show no call, I said "screw her" and completely stopped calling her. I found myself making excuses (maybe she lost my number, blah blah) but had to realize she was just a dis-respectful person. So I totally stopped calling her. Eventually she contacting me (but only because she really wanted to travel) and when we talked about this she apologized and we became a couple. The relationship was completely short lived and awful. Her flakyness really was the writing on the wall that she was a selfish person and it would not work between us. So my advice is to just totally cut off flaky women. Chances are they were never right in the first place but if they have any humility, they will come to you and admit they are wrong... if not, then you truly are better off. Take it from me, you DON'T want to be with people like that I had a real issue with a flaky girl. I really liked this girl for a long time but she was really flaky. We eventually planned to take a roap trip together and as I tried to get to know her more by hanging out with her, she just kept flaking me out. Finally after the third, no show no call, I said “screw her” and completely stopped calling her. I found myself making excuses (maybe she lost my number, blah blah) but had to realize she was just a dis-respectful person. So I totally stopped calling her. Eventually she contacting me (but only because she really wanted to travel) and when we talked about this she apologized and we became a couple. The relationship was completely short lived and awful. Her flakyness really was the writing on the wall that she was a selfish person and it would not work between us. So my advice is to just totally cut off flaky women. Chances are they were never right in the first place but if they have any humility, they will come to you and admit they are wrong… if not, then you truly are better off. Take it from me, you DON’T want to be with people like that

]]> http://lifewithsoul.com/2009/02/stop-chasing-bad-leads-delete-those-flakes/comment-page-1/#comment-3240 Nicky Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:36:37 +0000 http://lifewithsoul.com/?p=212#comment-3240 Good blog, Soul. I'm new to this after the workshop I did with you and seem to be getting flaked - some wont even add me on Facebook. I've been thinking about my recent approaches and can see which ones clicked and which didnt though. Good blog, Soul. I’m new to this after the workshop I did with you and seem to be getting flaked – some wont even add me on Facebook. I’ve been thinking about my recent approaches and can see which ones clicked and which didnt though.

]]> http://lifewithsoul.com/2009/02/stop-chasing-bad-leads-delete-those-flakes/comment-page-1/#comment-441 Best Weekend Reading From Around the Web Wed, 04 Mar 2009 08:42:57 +0000 http://lifewithsoul.com/?p=212#comment-441 [...] Soul wrote a good article about avoiding and eliminating flaky behavior in women. [...] [...] Soul wrote a good article about avoiding and eliminating flaky behavior in women. [...]

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