Archive for May, 2010

24 May

Establishing Eye Contact with Women: Lukewarm Approaches

When I began my journey to become better around beautiful women, I didn’t know what to say when approaching women I didn’t know (i.e. doing a “cold approach”). Now that I’ve been at it for over five years, I’m at the point where I’m quite comfortable around beautiful women, and rarely have trouble thinking about [...]

16 May

U-Shaped Mood Curves & Dips in Your Growth

I read a book recently called Switch, by Chip and Dan Heath, about “how to change when change is hard.” The book covers a lot of different areas of life, but it centres around how and why people can change things in their life, whether it’s their dating, love and sex life, their business or [...]

08 May

Travails & Learnings of a Modern Renaissance Man

I’m changing the way I blog and keep people updated via my Jeremy Soul facebook account (and at some point in the next few months, I’ll probably get into twitter properly too). I’ve become a big fan of Gary Vaynerchuk, who advocates being really passionate about your business and what you do, and expressing that [...]

07 May

Learn to Feel Good when you Meet Women

My good buddy LA2NY, one of the Love Systems guys in LA who’s likely to become an official Love Systems coach this year, wrote this excellent article that explains more about how to get into a good state (or flow) when you’re out to meet women. The Dichotomy of State Control I had some comments [...]

04 May

Brotherhood!

Hung out with Vercetti and 5.0 last night back in London. Good to reconnect with old friends. I first met those guys a couple of years ago when they started coaching for Love Systems. Since then, we’ll all travelled the world, had crazy dating adventures with women, and partied and got into all sorts of [...]

01 May

Never Eat Alone – Lessons on Dating from Keith Ferazzi

I’ve often said that a lot of my learnings on Dating have come from tangential subjects that I research for other areas of growth (e.g. learning more about social networking or business taught me a lot about getting better with women). Keith Ferazzi’s book Never Eat Alone is still on my reading list, but I [...]