Archive for the 'Relationships' Category

27 Apr

Quality Vs. Quantity in Love, Sex & Relationships

    I write this as I immerse myself in the feeling of having met a girl of astounding quality. We just spent one incredible week together in London. I met her on the last New York Day Game Workshop I ran, and after having spent one beautiful evening together, we decided she should fly [...]

29 Dec

Stop Hanging Out with Unsuccessful People

At a time of year when most people are being relentlessly positive and talking about what they want to do next year, let’s go against the grain and talk about what we don’t want to do: hang out with bad people. Part of being a successful person, whether in dating women, in business or otherwise, [...]

18 Dec

Ayn Rand on Sex, Love and Relationships

I’ve learnt a lot from reading Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand. I highly recommend it for everyone. It reinforced the way I feel about a lot of things, and explained things that I felt deeply but never really had the ability to explain. Here are some of my favourite quotes and why they are relevant [...]

01 Dec

Dealing with Jealousy, Envy and other Bad Emotions

Today I’m going to talk about how to deal with bad emotions such as jealousy, envy, anger and low self-esteem. I’ll be focusing on the examples of jealously and envy, but you can use this process to deal with any bad emotion that you have to tussle with. A lot of people berate the experience [...]

21 Nov

Inspire others to be Better

A natural by-product of being a dating coach and improving other people’s thoughts and behaviours for a living is that you learn to see which areas the other people in your lives – be they friends, family or lovers – can improve upon. Focusing on your own self-development is great and ultimately what we’re all [...]